Ive always felt like I didn’t have a voice when it came to dating. I felt like I was at the whim of these men. I also struggled with being vulnerable after a very rough breakup with the father of my son. This program taught me how to be vulnerable in a way that makes me feel empowered and safe. How to communicate with men in a way they understand and how to gently reinforce my boundaries. I feel like for once I’m actually putting myself first. This program gave me the tools to feel more confident in dating and selecting better men. Understanding how to evaluate dates, conversations, and behaviors is so important. I feel reborn almost. And I found a special person along the way. Things I keep in mind… you can never say the wrong thing to the right person and to reflect on how things made me feel not just my opinion. Thank you Anwar and Shoya. ❤️

Some of the biggest takeaways are that it’s a process of self-discovery. It’s not just about finding your guy, but getting to the root of your own triggers and self-sabotaging behavior.
There were a few moments when I felt like giving up or it wasn’t working, but you have to continue and persevere with help from your coaches.

some of the biggest takeaways are that it’s a process of self-discovery. It’s not just about finding your guy, but getting to the root of your own triggers and self-sabotaging behavior.
There were a few moments when I felt like giving up or it wasn’t working, but you have to continue and persevere with help from your coaches.

my biggest takeaway was I finally learned how to use my voice and set boundaries. When I had problems or issues, I would do so in ways that was demeaning not realizing that I was just in a hyper independent/survival mode, not actually living. I had a voice but I was using it all wrong. I had to sit with myself and get REAL! With all the therapy and tools that I’ve learned from this program, I had to do some rethinking, relearning, and reparenting. There were traumas and triggers holding me back and once I realized that I was sitting in victim mentality and that I should see myself as a survivor, it was like scales fell off my eyes. My guy is everything that I’ve been praying for and what I wrote down. I also realized that the guy that I thought was my type was my downfall. He’s nothing like what I go for but it was his energy, his kindness, his patience with me, how he gives me space to talk and listens to me, I’ve learned new things about me and most important, how I feel completely safe, vulnerable, and comfortable with him! For so long I’ve operated in my masculine and just micromanaged all of my relationships. He has truly given me space to be feminine which no one in my dating life has ever given me that. I can be vulnerable and set boundaries and he’s on the same page. I can’t wait to share everything with him!🥰😍♥️

First, thank you so much because with you and The GYG community, the deep work wouldn’t have happened and I wouldn’t have know how to strategize and even what I deserved. When I finally met my guy, it was so clear that he was really my guy from our first conversation. The funnel works wonders! Please use the funnel ladies. Also, please know that there are men out there who will be willing to treat like the queen you are, respect you, be kind to you, be your cheerleader, etc. They are out there and I know sometimes it feels hopeless, but try to keep the faith. Also, I had to internalize for myself that I deserved to be treated well. That was some thing that I don’t think I ever had really accepted until I started the program last January. I also gave myself lots of breaks from the app when I felt burnt out. I felt like that was very necessary. I also recognized how I became more vulnerable on dates and it just became easier and easier to share my thoughts so that when I met my guy , and my guy was also the kind of guy that shared his thoughts, we just vibed. I would not have been ready for him a year ago. Sending all of you ladies and Anwar, so much love! My therapist always says that the world is overpopulated lol and there are billions of people in the world there are definitely more than several guys out there for you!

for me the biggest takeaway is that I had to do the work on me before I could get guy. There was a couple of months where my professional life was in an upheaval and I needed to work through that and I did with support from this program .
When I hadn’t found my guy yet, I was so happy for my sisters who had found their guy but found myself wondering when it would be my time. I really had to focus on doing the work and commit to making myself better. We all have the journey we’re supposed to have….