I would highly recommend coach Anwar. From the beginning I’ve realized that he’s really understanding and knows the best way to change the situation and get the best results.

thank you! Could literally not have done it without you! My takeaways are many but especially: 1) Trust the coaches, they really know what they are doing! 2) Don’t trust the story in your head—challenge and flip thoughts using the intentional mindset model. It was always so much easier for me to cut a guy off quickly for (perceived) slights. 3) Lead with vulnerability even when it feels uncomfortable. There is a reason why the coaches ask how you were vulnerable in dates and in conversation. The right guy will hold a safe space for you and respond in kind. It is femininity at its core!

Thanks y’all! I’m very happy and excited to be on this new phase of the journey.
One of my biggest takeaways was how much I needed to keep my mind and my mindset right. I had a lot of anxiety and I had to work to trust the process and not allow the “alone forever” toilet bowl thoughts. Reaching out to my coaches really helped with that!

The journey towards getting my guy began on our very first call. I was hanging on to a man who was ill-suited to me, simply because I thought there would be no one better if we broke up. This was a pattern that stood in my way for most of my adult life. Coach Anwar helped me to get over the scarcity mindset, break up with the ex, and allow space for something new. Much to my surprise, there were a lot of interesting men, even in my mid-forties, even in San Francisco! I met my beau in vivo, through a mutual friend. The GYG program provided an excellent framework to evaluate our budding relationship, and I found that my guy sailed through the funnel quite naturally. I feel at peace and excited about what is to come. Ladies, I’m a believer, the change begins within!

So many amazing takeaways! I learned that it is okay to sit in my feminine and allow him to do for me. It is actually very liberating. I also learned that “I feel” statements and “I prefer” statements are key for healthy communication. Relatedly, I’ve built the muscle to establish boundaries and will continue to strengthen it while in the relationship. Finally, the man who is for you will respect your boundaries – no if, ands or buts about it. Thank you for all that you do coaches. I’m excited for what’s to come!

key takeaways on getting into this relationship was talking my shit and speaking up about my boundaries and preferences each and every time – specifically not just physical safety boundaries which came easy to me in the program – but being able to expand that to all of my boundaries and preferences and letting my partner show up for me again and again and again in the way I preferred. Before I had a bad habit of being “cute and mute” which led me to being disappointed often by those who couldn’t read my mind! not anymore! Thank you Anwar and Shoya!