key takeaways on getting into this relationship was talking my shit and speaking up about my boundaries and preferences each and every time – specifically not just physical safety boundaries which came easy to me in the program – but being able to expand that to all of my boundaries and preferences and letting my partner show up for me again and again and again in the way I preferred. Before I had a bad habit of being “cute and mute” which led me to being disappointed often by those who couldn’t read my mind! not anymore! Thank you Anwar and Shoya!

some of the biggest takeaways are that it’s a process of self-discovery. It’s not just about finding your guy, but getting to the root of your own triggers and self-sabotaging behavior.
There were a few moments when I felt like giving up or it wasn’t working, but you have to continue and persevere with help from your coaches.

my biggest takeaway was I finally learned how to use my voice and set boundaries. When I had problems or issues, I would do so in ways that was demeaning not realizing that I was just in a hyper independent/survival mode, not actually living. I had a voice but I was using it all wrong. I had to sit with myself and get REAL! With all the therapy and tools that I’ve learned from this program, I had to do some rethinking, relearning, and reparenting. There were traumas and triggers holding me back and once I realized that I was sitting in victim mentality and that I should see myself as a survivor, it was like scales fell off my eyes. My guy is everything that I’ve been praying for and what I wrote down. I also realized that the guy that I thought was my type was my downfall. He’s nothing like what I go for but it was his energy, his kindness, his patience with me, how he gives me space to talk and listens to me, I’ve learned new things about me and most important, how I feel completely safe, vulnerable, and comfortable with him! For so long I’ve operated in my masculine and just micromanaged all of my relationships. He has truly given me space to be feminine which no one in my dating life has ever given me that. I can be vulnerable and set boundaries and he’s on the same page. I can’t wait to share everything with him!🥰😍♥️

I was single for-(like)-ever. I never put myself out there and Anwar helped me open up to the world and receive the love I deserved. I owe him a great deal of gratitude. I am currently dating and choosing the guys I date versus waiting around to be chosen.

Thank you everyone 🥹 Sincerely, I feel so fortunate to be on this journey with a whole community. You all made me feel brave🥹
Anwar White, I don’t know if I can narrow it down to one takeaway 😭
1) Email is bae
2) It’s like IKEA, through em in the cart and let the funnel funnel!
3) “You don’t know who you are yet, so you don’t know who you need”. This advice from Coach Anwar keeps reminding me to stay open and curious when I want to default back to my old thinking.
4) “Dating isn’t personal, you don’t know them and they don’t know you!” Another Coach Anwar quote!
5) If it feels familiar you are on the wrong path😂 the right one feels foreign and weird at times, but the coaches are right here to help us to process the newness of it all❤️

i learned so much about having patience, setting boundaries, and not settling for less than what i deserve. It took a year to find my guy and im so glad i waited for the right one. Also i was open to dating outside my comfort zones. My guy is 10 yrs younger but he’s treated me the best I’ve ever been treated. I’m so thankful to this program!!