Dating Coach Anwar is Ready to Help You Get Your Guy!
Girl!!!! What is your dating strategy?
Many women struggle with dating because they don’t have a clear strategy. I have developed a proprietary dating strategy that helps my clients consistently attract high-quality men—that’s the exterior work! But the real magic happens when we do the inner work to heal inner wounds, lean into feminine energy, and set boundaries without guilt! Ready to attract AND keep the love you deserve?
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Hi, I’m Anwar White, and I’m a dating coach specifically for Black and Brown women who are ready to transform their love lives completely. Most call me the Dating Fairy Godbrother
I’ve guided thousands of women from endless dating apps and disappointments straight into fulfilling, committed relationships. In fact, women in my program are getting engaged every single week – not because they got lucky, but because they learned the exact strategies that work.
Here’s what I know: You’re tired of playing the waiting game. You’re done hoping someone will finally choose you, and you’re ready to become the one doing the choosing. That shift from being the option to being the prize? That’s where everything changes.
I’m here to teach you the proven frameworks and step-by-step processes that take you from guessing what men want to confidently navigating your way to the altar. This isn’t about playing games or changing who you are – it’s about learning the dating skills that honestly, most of our mothers never had the chance to teach us.
You deserve to feel empowered in your love life. You deserve to know exactly how to date with intention, set standards that stick, and attract the kind of man who sees your worth from day one.
If you’re ready to stop leaving your love life to chance and start creating the relationship you actually want, then you’re in exactly the right place.
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Hear From My Clients
This program has been transformative for my self-discovery journey!
This program has been transformative for my self-discovery journey! Investing in yourself can truly open unexpected doors. The biggest takeaway for me has been the power of self-investment. Through this program, I learned to prioritize self-care, set healthy boundaries, and embrace my identity.Another key lesson is the importance of staying curious. Curiosity allows me to approach life with an open mind and a willingness to learn and grow. It helps me connect with others on a deeper level by fostering empathy and understanding. I’m so grateful for this program. The journey of self-discovery is never-ending, and I’m excited to see what new things I learn about myself and the world around me!
T. D
The journey towards getting my guy began on our very first call.
The journey towards getting my guy began on our very first call. I was hanging on to a man who was ill-suited to me, simply because I thought there would be no one better if we broke up. This was a pattern that stood in my way for most of my adult life. Coach Anwar helped me to get over the scarcity mindset, break up with the ex, and allow space for something new. Much to my surprise, there were a lot of interesting men, even in my mid-forties, even in San Francisco! I met my beau in vivo, through a mutual friend. The GYG program provided an excellent framework to evaluate our budding relationship, and I found that my guy sailed through the funnel quite naturally. I feel at peace and excited about what is to come. Ladies, I’m a believer, the change begins within!
I. R
The journey towards getting my guy began on our very first call.
The journey towards getting my guy began on our very first call. I was hanging on to a man who was ill-suited to me, simply because I thought there would be no one better if we broke up. This was a pattern that stood in my way for most of my adult life. Coach Anwar helped me to get over the scarcity mindset, break up with the ex, and allow space for something new. Much to my surprise, there were a lot of interesting men, even in my mid-forties, even in San Francisco! I met my beau in vivo, through a mutual friend. The GYG program provided an excellent framework to evaluate our budding relationship, and I found that my guy sailed through the funnel quite naturally. I feel at peace and excited about what is to come. Ladies, I’m a believer, the change begins within!
Ing R.
Follow the funnel boundaries exactly.
Follow the funnel boundaries exactly. Trust the funnel and let it work for you. It will teach you to connect more to your heart and spend less time in your head and overthinking.
Use the apps. They provide invaluable practice. But also go outside and meet people, men and women. Smile with teeth. Open the space.
Set boundaries with everyone, practice vulnerability, stay in your feminine energy, and use your emotion wheel.
Be patient. The season of despair will show up around month three but you will make your way out.
Be liberal with your swiping. Other than fakes or ENM types, I swiped on pretty much everyone who was a 5 or above. The funnel will weed 99 percent of everyone out.
Date all kinds of people. You will learn a lot about yourself. Have fun with it and crack yourself up. Take screenshots of all the app craziness and share it.
If you screw up (and you will) it’s not the end of the world. I had to heal from my childhood wounds of striving to be perfect. Learn from your mistakes. They are some of the best lessons.
Follow Anwar’s advice implicitly. Even when it doesn’t make sense to you. He’s an (experienced) genius.
Your guy will not come in the package you expect but he will be exactly what you need him to be. You literally can’t say or do anything to screw up or chase him away.
Embrace the GYG community. Your support and insight has been very healing and helpful. We heal best in Community. Keep your cameras on during Tuesday tea and Thursday Q&A and interact, even when you feel like a hot mess. It will help you feel more connected.
Upgrade to VIP if you can. I did a lot of work on my own but Coach Shoya and Coach Anwar pushed me over the edge towards success.
Do the inner work. Go all in. Go deep. It will pay off in the end.
Find an accountability partner in the group and join the regional groups. Join the Over 50 group chat if you’re “seasoned.”
W. M
My main takeaway from this program
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the lessons in boundaries and vulnerability were LOUD loud!
the lessons in boundaries and vulnerability were LOUD loud! Everyone is right it’s more than about getting the guy…you do some major inner work in here! That is the only reason I got as far as I did and will be the foundation in how I show up in my relationship going forward! ❤️🥰
I. B
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